
Colorado terror suspect Robert Dear, described in New York Times stories as a “gentle loner” and as “imperfect but a good man.”
Many were taken aback to read the New York Times‘ summary of what its team of reporters gleaned from interviewing neighbors of the man arrested for murdering three people at a Colorado Springs women’s health clinic:
Acquaintances described Robert L. Dear Jr., who was arrested in a fatal rampage at a Planned Parenthood center in Colorado, as a gentle loner who occasionally unleashed violent acts toward neighbors and women he knew.
It’s hard to say what was more incongruous: the description of someone who had reportedly admitted carrying out a deadly act of terror as a “gentle loner” or the presumption that phrase could be attached to someone who “occasionally unleashed violent acts” toward women and others.
Faced with a barrage of criticism on Twitter and elsewhere, the Times rewrote the lead of that story to make Dear less “gentle.” Now the same reporters reported that “neighbors said they barely knew him”—the same neighbors, presumably, to whom the earlier description was attributed.
But lest one think that this positive spin on the terror suspect was a slip of the word processor, the Times still has up a profile of Dear as seen by his ex-wife—written by Richard Faucett, one of the four reporters responsible for the “gentle loner” piece—which if anything provides an even more sympathetic portrait.
“The blue eyes of Pamela Ross, 54, wince and cloud when she thinks back on the years that she spent with her ex-husband, Robert L. Dear Jr.,” it begins. The description of the eyes’ pain and tears provides an invitation for the reader to identify with Ross’s former spouse, and through her with him; what the description of their color is doing here, other than signaling that we’re talking about white people, is anyone’s guess.
“He was good to the son they had together, now 25 years old, whom they raised in Walterboro, S.C.,” the piece reports in the second paragraph. It continues:
Mr. Dear could be angry at times, she said, sometimes angry with her. But he was the kind who usually followed a flash of anger with an apology.
And here’s that word again: “She recalled a big man, well-groomed, gentle and pleasant, but not much for chitchat.”
The tone of the piece is summed up in the original headline, which is preserved in the url: “Ex-Wife Recalls Colorado Gunman as Imperfect but a Good Man.”
Needless to say, the New York Times is not in the habit of going to the family members of people accused of committing terror in the name of Islam and reprinting their fond recollections. Nor is that the treatment given to African-American men accused of killing cops. In fact, African-Americans killed by cops are more likely to get the “he’s no angel” treatment.
The reporting on terrorist violence is intensely political—starting, of course, with which acts of terror are given the “terror” label in the first place. Some terrorism is presented as a violation of the normal order of things that demands an outraged, usually violent response. Other kinds of terrorism are offered with a sort of shrug to indicate that they aren’t to be taken too seriously—the sort of thing that is carried out by “gentle loners,” by men who are imperfect but good. Our blue eyes wince and cloud.
Jim Naureckas is the editor of FAIR.org.
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“Wince and cloud”? Time for an update of that style manual.
Let’s face it. How is the problem of police policing themselves different from the problem of whites policing themselves?
Push the white button for empathy
“He was good to the son they had together, now 25 years old, whom they raised in Walterboro, S.C.,”
Walterboro, S.C., huh?
Curious is there’s a connection to “The Last Day Prophet of God” Brother Ralph G. Stair and his Overcomer Ministry…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brother_Stair
White supremacy is over.
I agree the evidence is overwhelming of a double-standard on terrorism. Keep up the good work on exposing them.
I also agree that literally seeing the world through a white person’s eyes is its own kind of bias. However, the description of the “blue” eyes in particular, I think is somewhat, though not entirely, incidental to race. One would hope that a human being would really try to feel fully what the victims feel. But some have claimed this story is mostly finding a cold reception in the press. And if that’s true, then there is no official edict to mourn the victims. In the place of mourning is a more individualistic way to cope with the horror. The small details serve like a mindless guided meditation, like in an article in the Chicago Tribune piece that was simply a list of crimes from 2 years back: “The glass from the front door had been shattered and trickled down a cement slope in front, where it gathered like snow at the sidewalk.” (1 dead, 8 wounded in shootings across city April 28, 2013 | By Peter Nickeas and Rosemary Regina Sobol). You can’t go wrong describing cloudy eyes and shattered glass. That is one more sentence you’ve written without having to press for understanding or truth on the matter. The aesthetic and emotional distance is necessary both to console yourself and cover your own reputation.
Of course, one could also ask why the story was on the terrorist and not the victims? On the issue of medical care, including contraceptive services and subtle but effective discrimination, the racism hurts Black women on both ends: “For white supremacists, the decline in the number of white births is directly tied to their fear of a decline in white dominance in the U.S….” while “women of color may not have the same access to information on reproductive health and at the same time, experience pressure from their doctors to use contraceptives and to limit their family size.” (Racism Review: November 30, 2015: “White Terrorism: The White Supremacy of Anti-Abortion Extremism” by Jessie Daniels) Though there is no explicit intention to do this, this still influences both medical culture and welfare policies, such as the 1996 welfare bill which capped a poor woman’s benefits after she has had a certain number of children.
This shootout at a Planned Parenthood clinic, surely it was the latest battle between those who support government funded abortion, and those who support government deadly force being used to prevent abortion.
Truth is, child bearing is most painful, often harmful and even deadly for the mother. Which is why giving birth is an act of love, and not a legal duty enforceable by criminal prosecution.
For nature’s God is a pacifist, he demands that all his true believers be pacifists and to use government deadly force to prevent the death of an unborn child, to use force in anyway in the name of God, surely that is to slander and desecrate the person of god.
Seriously, we know that “white men” can’t jump, so it must mean they can’ be terrorists either. The folks at NYT and the main stream media are just really good at play “Black/White”, if they do it, it must be ‘good/white’, if the other person does it, it must be ‘black/bad’. 1984 wasn’t the date when Big Brother took over, it was just another date in the already long history of certain people being “Big Brother”. TASS should weep in envy.
BREAKING NEWS – FAIR VINDICATED ON IRAN!!
In article after article, FAIR has asserted that Iran should be taken at its word that it has no interest in developing nuclear weapons (and certainly not after 2003). In a 9/30/13 article, e.g., FAIR quoted Ahmadinejad, who said in 2006 that Iran is “against the atomic bomb” and that its “activities are for peaceful purposes.” In 2008, Ahmadinejad reiterated, “We don’t believe in a nuclear bomb.”
Now the IAEA has just released its final assessment, which concludes that Iran continued nuclear weapons research until at least 2009, including computer modelling of a nuclear explosive device. Further, the IAEA confirms Iran’s lack of cooperation in providing information to the IAEA, including its cover-up at the Parchin site starting in 2012.
OOPS – MY MISTAKE – FAIR WAS NOT VINDICATED. ACTUALLY FAIR HAS YET AGAIN BEEN REVEALED AS A SHAMELESS APOLOGIST FOR THE THEOCRATIC FASCIST STATE OF IRAN.
“which acts of terror are given the “terror” label in the first place”
That’s about the ONLY serious issue brought up in this piece and its not elaborated on.
The foaming at the mouth about him being described as a “gentle loner” is completely ridiculous. Did you raise similar alarm when Dzhokhar Tsarnaev was described as friendly, easy going in every second article etc.?
Well, he does seem to be well-groomed. Perhaps we should all hold off assessing blame. After all, he might follow this flash of anger with an apology, as well. I’m guessing that it an excess of chitchat finally got to this imperfect, but good Dear. And, apparently, nobody got hurt.
@ Willy –
You were right with your first sentence — too bad you got the rest WRONG!
See: https://consortiumnews.com/2015/12/17/twisting-the-facts-on-iran-nukes/